Hello everyone!
Firstly, I’d like to admit that I accidentally moved the latest few entries to the trash and permanently deleted them… I thought I was deleting drafts but I guess I should have checked more clearly, that’s my mistake. What’s gone is gone so I guess I should try not to think about it 😬
How has everyone been since my last entry, if anyone is still here? I’ve been doing okay, life goes on. I (strangely) saw a piece of my artwork that linked to this blog whilst searching on google and I had totally forgotten this had existed. I did initially think about deleting this blog but I’ve decided to keep this as an archive instead.
As for my personal life, I graduated from university in 2017 and have been working full-time since. I really like my job, it’s in tech, and I earn an okay amount to support myself so I’m pretty happy. I still occasionally freelance for my previous workplace, although I might ask them if I can start doing extra part-time work with them officially.
It’s hard to condense the past 4 years of my life since my last entry… I guess 5 years since I accidentally deleted my more recently blog entries haha. I just felt like I was encountering one problem after another, but things are better. My last (deleted) entry talked about my problems finding a job up until graduation. I finally found a job I was passionate about, which was incredibly lucky because I had just graduated. Everything was fine for a few months but then I deleted severe insomnia. This is the first time (yes, it was more than once!) that I cried in front of my boss. I just felt like I had no control and the insomnia really affected my ability to do work and concentrate so I was at a complete loss. I developed anxiety because I was worried about sleeping, and then I couldn’t sleep because I was too worried! Actually now that I think about about, in my last year of university I had the opposite issue of severe fatigue. I also had anxiety back then which made it hard for me to leave the house.
I’m not sure what what point the insomnia got better but again, things improved for a few months. Then, suddenly, I developed tinnitus and once again was thrown into despair as it exasperated my insomnia and then it turned into severe anxiety. This was possibly at the lowest point of my life and I had contemplated running in front of a car or taking pills just so I could become unconscious and make the noises in my head stop. This was the second time I went crying to my boss, who was very kind and recommended counselling at work and putting though to occupational health, who then referred me to a wellness programme. I was slowly improving again and, funnily enough, when the pandemic came it was right after I had moved into a new flat that was a bigger place and one that I bought myself so I was in a really good place for a while. Yes, the lockdowns did affect me a little, but I was just happy I didn’t have to rent, lived in a bigger place, could decorate, and had more time/saving money as I was working from home instead of going to the office. I still have insomnia and tinnitus to this day but it is not affecting me as much as previously. So yeah, there were a lot of ups and downs over the past few years but I just consider everything an experience.
This will be my last post on this blog so I wish everyone the best! 💖 Take care, and stay safe!